There are quite a few times when dating is difficult because it seems the other person is after something instead of looking at it as a way to be with someone, and those who find their dates less than appealing should look at what they are doing wrong. They generally start off by selecting the wrong people to go out with, and it goes downhill from there. Creating good relationships means looking honestly at what a person wants, but they must also feel they are worthy of being with someone good.
It takes a lot of effort for some people to finally find that one person for them, but few of them understand it begins with their own attitude. If they think little of their own worth, there are not a lot of people who will treat them with respect. They will have to take the time to analyze their own behavior so they can acquire a relationship where they are treated the way they want.