A Respectful Relationship
Getting involved with another person in a mutual relationship could be a leap of faith for those who have had bad experiences, but the end result might be worthwhile. Looking at others through their own filters might tend to put them off relationships, but learning about their own needs could improve their chances for success. If they have a bad job, or they believe they lack enough education, there are always people willing to take advantage of them. Those who do not have all the want right now simply need a plan to get it, and their ability to imagine a better future could help them find a real partner.
People tend to make comparisons between their own life and that of others, but their measurements are not always true. For a person struggling to get enough education to get a better job, someone who has already gotten a degree might appear to have everything they want. It would be nice if that were true, but the grass is not always greener in someone else’s yard. That educated person might feel they are lacking when it comes to finding a good relationship.
Getting started on a better life does take work, but those who are willing to push their own limits often seem more appealing to potential dates. Their lack of time for being in a relationship might not be as much of an issue as they think, and the other person could respect the fact they are willing to go the extra distance to get ahead in their own life.
Finding a good relationship that will make both partners happy is often about respect, but those who have little or none for their own future could find others feel the same way. It might not always be easy to push forward, but those who do will often find others respect and care more for them.